Friendship

Are You a Needy Friend?

If I'm a needy friend, how do I change my ways?

  • Vary your topics when you're talking to your friends. Don't always talk about your problems.
  • Listen to what your friends say in response. Take advice. Show them that their input counts and that you're not just whining about your problems to them.
  • Tell them, "Thank you," and let them know that you really appreciated their help.
  • Reciprocate. Be willing to help. They listened to you, now you listen to them.
  • Show interest in your friends. Ask them about their day. Share their enthusiasm for things you both like.
  • Give compliments. If you build your friends up, they will hopefully do the same for you.
  • Try journaling. This saves you from unloading on your friends.
  • Build your self-esteem and self-confidence. You have to be happy with yourself before anyone else will be truly happy with you.
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